01/30/09 - Rec'd paperwork from my new Home Study agency (BVS)
4/23/08 - Rec'd updated list # 240
4/21/08 - Rec'd List # 243
4/19/08 - Rec'd I 171H form
4/5/08 - Completed/Passed Heart of the Matter Test
4/3/08 - USCIS fingerprinted @ local USCIS office
3/5/08 - HAND delivered I600A to USCIS
2/2/08 - Home Study part 2 completed
2/2/08 - Social work visit (2)
1/23/08 - Social worker visit (1)
1/7/08 - Home Study, part 1 completed
12/17/07 - Started the PAPER CHASE
12/12/07 - Application APPROVED!!
12/5/07 - Application rec'd by CHI
12/3/07 - Mailed application to CHI
11/15/07 - Requested information from CHI
Birthdays
Thursday, May 1, 2008
Help..
I am open to suggestions on how to deal with all that is/isn't going on with our Vietnam adoptions. Has anyone BTDT with the last disruption? HELP, I need somebody, help!!
From experience I can say, you are still very new on the list, only tell your very very close friends and family your hopes, worries and updates. Expanding past that will burn you out fast. Good luck I am here if you need anything
Hi! I've never commented before but I am also a CHI family. I'm afraid that I can't help too much, but I would like to share something my Aunt once told me when we first started our adoption (1.5 years ago!). Her statement has always stuck with me and has helped me put things in perspective. Whenever I felt like I couldn't wait even one more day, whenever I felt a lot of doubt, I always think of her words: "what is a year or two in the grand scheme of things?...You will one day have a lifetime of joy when you are home with your child...compare a lifetime of joy to a couple of years of waiting..." OK, you get the drift! I hope this helps in some small way. Uncertainty is the scariest part of adoption, I will be praying that you find peace during this rough time.
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From experience I can say, you are still very new on the list, only tell your very very close friends and family your hopes, worries and updates. Expanding past that will burn you out fast. Good luck I am here if you need anything
Hi! I've never commented before but I am also a CHI family. I'm afraid that I can't help too much, but I would like to share something my Aunt once told me when we first started our adoption (1.5 years ago!). Her statement has always stuck with me and has helped me put things in perspective. Whenever I felt like I couldn't wait even one more day, whenever I felt a lot of doubt, I always think of her words: "what is a year or two in the grand scheme of things?...You will one day have a lifetime of joy when you are home with your child...compare a lifetime of joy to a couple of years of waiting..." OK, you get the drift! I hope this helps in some small way. Uncertainty is the scariest part of adoption, I will be praying that you find peace during this rough time.
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