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Monday, December 29, 2008

JCICS as of 12/23/2008

December 23, 2008

Child Permanency in Vietnam: Intercountry Adoption Must Continue to Play a Role
For the past 33 years intercountry adoption has played a critical role in ensuring the right of Vietnamese children to a safe, permanent, and loving family. The Vietnamese have done so in realizing that every child needs a family in which to grow and thrive. Joint Council commends Vietnam for their efforts to provide a family for every child. During this timeframe, Vietnam has, at times, however found the need to close intercountry adoptions to the U.S. and other countries. The most recent closure to the U.S. occurred on September 1, 2008.


Across this 30-plus year history, there have been isolated reports of abuse within the Vietnamese intercountry adoption system. Last year, there was a concerted effort among all stakeholders to stop such abuse in order to continue ethical and safe adoptions to the United States. As part of this effort the Vietnamese government arrested persons accused of child buying and announced a desire to become party to the Hague Convention on Intercountry Adoptions. In the United States, Congressional Representatives advocated for a new agreement to ensure ethical adoptions would continue while protecting the rights of Vietnamese children. Joint Council, along with our Member Organizations, implemented Standards of Practice and launched A Child’s Rights Campaign for Vietnam to promote transparency in international adoption while maintaining it as a viable permanency solution.


Despite our collective efforts, the Memorandum of Understanding between the U.S. and Vietnam expired this Fall and all intercountry adoptions to the U.S. ceased in September 2008. Although there was disappointment that an understanding could not be met, there was hope that a new agreement would soon be reached. Both the U.S. and Vietnam showed a commitment to negotiating a new bilateral agreement and Vietnam showed interest in transitioning into a Hague-compliant system. While the U.S. Department of State has reached out to their Vietnamese counterparts, no face-to-face negotiations have taken place.


Currently, there is no indication of when or if an agreement will be reached.


Child welfare professionals working in Vietnam are continually reporting a rising number of orphans placed in local institutions. Similarly, birth families surrendering their children continue to request that they be placed for adoption. Many orphanages are quickly becoming overcrowded, and supplies are depleting rapidly.


As each day passes with no progress toward a new agreement, the vulnerable children of Vietnam are increasingly placed at risk. It is for this reason that Joint Council strongly supports the efforts of U.S. Senators Mary Landrieu and Norm Coleman in requesting that Congressional representatives sign a letter intended for Nguyen Tan Dung, the Prime Minister of Vietnam. This letter will encourage Vietnam’s continued participation in negotiations related to a new bilateral agreement on intercountry adoption. The letter will express Congressional support for the continuation of intercountry adoption and will emphasize the importance of Vietnam’s transition to a Hague-compliant system and signing a new bilateral treaty. Joint Council feels that this letter is vital in spurring negotiations so that intercountry adoption can again provide another option for hope to the vulnerable children of Vietnam.


Joint Council urges you to please join us in ensuring that hope is alive for every Vietnamese child. Please take a moment and contact your Senators and Congressmen during our Call to Action on January 5th, 6th, and 7th. Doing so will help ensure that ethical intercountry adoptions continue to play a part in every Vietnamese child’s right to a safe, permanent, and loving family. Take a moment, and take a stand for the vulnerable children of Vietnam.

Friday, December 26, 2008

A few holiday pictures...




















Do you just love the Kate Spade BRAG book that my bestest friend ANDREA got for me. Naturally she INSISTED that I make her a copy of every picture that gets put in here!
I consider that request: DONE!
We love you Aunt Andrea; you're the greatest, even if it's taking you FOREVER to put a baby registry together. PLEASE.......get it done!!!!!!!!!




Saturday, December 20, 2008

Christmas Wishes...

I wanted to wish everyone out there in blog-land a very Merry Christmas. I pray Santa brings all of our little ones (home with us or not) peace and comfort that their forever homes await them with warm beds, comfy hugs and loads of love!

On a different note:

I just bought a tree, today!! I have to admit that it's a 48" FiberOptic tree from Rite Aid! It's not toooo bad. Hey, it fit the budget, $9.99 baby. :o)

If I can figure out how to upload a picture from my Blackberry, I show my tree!

In the meanwhile...have a great holiday everyone.

Nicholas....Merry Christmas Baby...

Love, Mommy.

Monday, December 15, 2008

Happy Monday all...

I am trying to put something useful on my blog! How am I doing thus far?!?! lol

So, how many of us are buying Christmas gifts for our babies that we haven't met yet!

1) Me
2) Andrea
3) the rest of us PAP's?

Has anyone come up with some 'not so difficult' way of earning some extra cash? Whether it be crafting, crocheting? Speaking of crocheting, does anyone have any SIMPLE (Crocheting for Dummies) patterns? I used to enjoy it and it may keep my nearly-fried brain on track. I know how to single and double crochet and I'm familiar with 'yarn over' but what is a slip-stitch? LMAO

Oh well, I'm fresh outta 'nuttin' to chat about.

In case I don't post prior to the 25th.. Merry Christmas everyone! The most special Christmas Wish goes to my son, Nicholas Angelo. Where ever you are Nicholas, Mommy is waiting for you. Some days pathetic but everyday hopeful!

XOXO

Me

Friday, December 12, 2008

What to post...

I'm sorry, but I clearly have nothing 'exciting' to say. I've been in a bit of a funk lately and can't seem to shake it. Could it be the "holiday blues" sure, but who knows! I get lots of emails from 'followers' asking me.......What's up with you...where are all of those witty posts? I do apologize, I just don't 'feel' it most days.

With the news about CHI's Hague Accrediation acceptance, that was great news but...I just didn't post it.

And now, I am heading off to bed. If anyone can think of anything for me to post..........please mention it!

I would love to add some nice shopping link that cater to Vietnamese products! Organic products, things like that. Perhaps some 'freebie' sites.

Gnite all.

Tuesday, December 2, 2008

Sad day.

R.I.P. Hunter. You'll be missed terribly.

2/1991 - 12/2/2008

Sunday, November 30, 2008

Where has the time gone?

I cannot believe that 12/4/08 will be a year already since I began searching for a child, whom I will call Nicholas Angelo through internation adoption. The time just fly by. I went from being a total novice to just about everyone related to international adoption to where I am now....still in a fog. LOL Just kidding.


I also can't believe all the items I have 'accumulated' for Nicholas. Just tonight my Mom said to me "Georgeanne what's in those boxes along side the secretary?" I giggled and she just said.....are ALL those for Nicholas too? lol I might have mentioned in a previous post that my Stepfather brought a bunch of boxes to store in our place in Pennsylvania. Retail therapy does wonders for me. Plus I love a good bargain!!


Anyhoo..I'm off to la la land for I am totally exhausted from three days of Christmas shopping. My poor credit card..oye. When I swiped it for the last items tonight the poor things let out a puff of smoke...he he he

I hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. We all have lots to be thankful for.

Now, on to Christmas!

Bells will be ringing....(blah blah, I'll spare you...)

I love you Nicholas Angelo

xo Mommy

Monday, November 24, 2008

Scrapbooking & Blogging??!

While reading my current Parenting magazine issue, I came across a website that some of you guys might be interested in. I'll be checking it out, as soon as I mop my floors. Mom has a Chihuahua (Taco, puppy) whom when left out of sight for more than a few minutes, will 'mark' his area. He has NO joke, NO source of income, therefore, he has NO area!! Ugh, anyway. I'll be checking out the site, let me know what you guys think of it: Here it is..

www.scrapblog.com Enjoy..

Sunday, November 23, 2008

Looking back to the past?

www.facebook.com It seems to be a great site for reconnecting with your old friends and such. Yeah, another sucky post!! Sorry....

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

On to new technology.

We had Verizon FIOS installed over the weekend and after ironing out a few wrinkles, it's great! I just LOVE my DVR. Any other Days of Our Lives fans out there!!

Ok I know, it's NOT such a fascinating post but...it's all I have at the moment. Oh yeah, I have the best-est friend in the whoooooooole wide world. ANDREA.

Until next time, I hope I have something better to post.

I love you Nicholas!

Monday, November 10, 2008

LOVE, Auntie Andrea!











Look at this amazing outfit that I found in the mail today. Auntie Andrea is the most special Aunt Nicholas has. She is always so thoughtful, if not in gifts, in her thoughts. We love her and so appreciate her in our lives.


xo

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Hawai'i

Sun just about to rise.
Nicholas' stretchy on my brother!

(hotel) everything is open/airy.


Beach (obviously)



USS Arizona Memorial @ Pearl Harbor




USS Arizona





Sunset (I didn't take this, I cheated)






Again, easy to figure out.







Another Sun about to rise.








Mom and brother, as we arrived.









My brother Patrick & I~Dallas layover


I don't have all of those breathtaking/picturesque shots....I'll have to go back again, with Nicholas and take more......OK?

Monday, November 3, 2008

ALOHA

Aloha from Waikiki Beach, Hawai'i. The weather is fantastic, the locals very friendly and some y too.....whooooohooooo. Before you know it, I'll be back in the big city, fussing about the chilly weather. Speaking of weather, it's been a steady mid EIGHTIES since day one.

OK, time to read a few more blogs then head to the shuttle...going parasailing! NO Gale, I'm just a spectator..lol

Nicholas, Mommy bought you some cute things......xoxo

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Falling in love with FALL...







I just love this time of year. The leaves are changing, the winds are brisk, the coloring are becoming more and more vibrant...ah. I can imagine Nicholas running through a pile of freshing raked-leaves!! Well, more like swept leaves. I live in the city, we don't have 'property' with much grass etc. So, a broom it is!! My girlfriend Andrea's home must be so wonderful at about now.....get some foliage pictures for me girlie!! And post on your blog, will ya! Geez.


Other than daydreaming, the only other thing going on here is home improvements. My Mom just had new hardwood floors installed, baseboard mouldings, etc etc etc....oh the mess. After seeing her work being done, I am now having work done (more mess). The room that will be Nicholas' (when he gets here but is mine for now) I had beadboard & mouldings installed, it will be painted soft/warm colors. I'll take pictures and post them once it's all done and the mess is cleared away. UGH I HATE THIS MESSSSSSSSSSS. And finally, a new bathroom vanity/faucet and ceramic tile flooring. That should be it for now.


Ok...I'm going to have a bite to eat, I'm starving.....


I love you Nicholas Angelo...

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

JCICS Postings..

Joint Council Update

Program Advocacy
Date October 14, 2008
Regarding I-600A Process

Dear Families & Friends,
After advocating on behalf of adoptive families for the past 6 months, Joint Council is very pleased to confirm that USCIS has announced a very positive ruling concerning the I-600A process.

In summary, it is our understanding that, effective immediately, families who filed Form I-600A, Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition, prior to April 1, 2008 and whose USCIS approval of that petition (aka the I-171H) has not expired, will be able to proceed with their adoption under the I-600A process if they take certain steps while their approval remain valid. This means that families with valid Form I-600A approvals will not be required to transition to The Hague process via Form I-800A. In order to maintain their status as ‘grandfathered’ cases, families with non-expired Form I-600A approvals must request a one-time free extension. Then, prior to the expiration of the one-time free extension, families must file a new Form I-600A and pay the appropriate fee.

It is also our understanding that families with a Form I-600A approval that has expired and who have not obtained an extension or filed a new Form I-600A, will need to undertake the Hague process. The Hague process will also apply to any petitioner who has not completed their adoption by 2014.

As we noted in our Position Statement, this ruling will save adoptive families thousands of dollars, eliminate countless sleepless nights and ensures that their adoption can proceed to completion.

On behalf of over 10,000 adoptive families, Joint Council extends its appreciation to the following individuals and organizations for their tireless efforts.
· Diane Kunz, Executive Director of the Center for Adoption Policy
· Dianne Pearce, Waiting Parent and Co-Organizer of the Fairness for Families Petition
· Debbie Reynolds, Joint Council China Caucus Co-Chairperson
· Kathleen Strottman, Executive Director of the Congressional Coalition on Adoption Institute
· David Yurkovich, Waiting Parent and Co-Organizer of the Fairness for Families Petition
· Members of the United States Congress
· United States Citizenship and Immigration Services
We offer our collective congratulations to everyone who participated in the Joint Council Call-To-Action and the Adoption for All: Fairness for Families petition. And we also send our congratulations to all who participated in the countless meetings, conference calls and emails over the past 6-months. Joint Council is built on a principle of collaboration and this very successful effort clearly demonstrates this principle in action. Our collective voice is definitely stronger than any singular organization or individual.
Joint Council notes that our interpretation of the ruling is offered as a courtesy only and should not be used in making determinations or decisions. Please refer to the full text of the announcements by USCIS which can be found at USCIS Announcement and USCIS Q&A in making any decisions.
Joint Council will provide more specifics as they become available and asks you to visit our website for the latest news and updates.


Best Wishes & Congratulations,

Tom

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

Not too much going on here except furniture moving, picking out paint colors. UGH. My apartment is a messssssssssssssssssss. I tossed my bed, haven't picked up a new one yet, sleeping on an air-mattress, which really isn't too bad to be honest. Things are all over the place. My poor dogs don't know which way to walk. But they didn't have a problem finding me on the air-mattress. I swear, if I slept on a bed of nails, they'd be right there beside me.

Oh well, time to get back to trying to figure out all of my cd's/dvd's and other entertainment center items.

Hope all is well with everyone.

FiveInTheHive, if you should ever read this, all the best as you travel to meet/pick up Sam & Eli.....

Nicholas, Mommy's with ya..........in heart.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Update...

The following is an excerpt from CHI's weekly update:

  • This week I did receive some information from our representative inVietnam that the US has sent an official letter to the Vietnamesegovernment requesting a meeting for the end of October. I believe thatthey will be sending officials over from the US to meet withVietnamese authorities regarding the new agreement. So this is VERYpositive news that they are actually having a face to face meeting. We don't expect that the agreement will be reached at this time as Iam sure there will be many meetings regarding the details of the newagreement before both sides actually sign. There was still no newinformation regarding the return of dossiers. We will let you know assoon as we hear of a meeting being scheduled or details of such a meeting.
    I'm happy reading that....one step in the right direction. Is it over tomorrow no, but it's further than where we were last night. Nicholas, Mommy's coming.........as soon as she can.

My new phone...worth posting, no but...oh well. LOL


Thursday, September 25, 2008

Aunt Andrea...

My Grandma picked up some of those BRECK products for you and the baby.....oh tay?!?! xoxo


Wuv, Ni-kew-wis


Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Thursday, September 18, 2008

Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Weekend purchases...

So, over the weekend, while in PA, Mom and I passed a yard sale and the lady had some nice things.......but what jumped out at me was this stroller! Yep, I bought it! It is in fantastic condition too! It's a Graco Coach Rider, in like a greenish tan. I left it at our place in PA. No sense in storing it here...won't need it for a while! The best part is...she was asking 30.00 for the stroller or 50.00 for both the car seat and stroller. I only wanted the stroller since I will buy a car seat new. I got the stroller for 25.00! Not a bad deal. She also had 6 or so, different ouce, brand new plastic bottles.....oh crap, are they BPA-free? hmmm and also two car window visors, all for the asking price of 3.00. Great deals make me smile. At the babiesrus in Scranton, PA, I browsed past the clearance rack and raked it in. I bought about 7-8 pieces totally like 14.00 :o)

Nicholas, your crazy mother is trying to get ready for you little man. Auntie Andrea sends her love too..

Thursday, September 11, 2008

Seven years later...

and this is all still fresh in my mind!

Tuesday, September 9, 2008

JCICS Update, as of 9-8-08

"September 8, 2008Following our update of September 1, 2008, it is Joint Council'sunderstanding that the Government of Vietnam has issued a formaldiplomatic note to the United States Government naming a high rankingVietnamese official as Vietnam's lead negotiator and also requestingthat both governments begin negotiations towards a new Memorandum ofAgreement regarding intercountry adoption. Joint Council applauds the Government of Vietnam for taking this veryimportant step and encourages the U.S. Government to respond in a mostpositive manner. For more information on the ongoing diplomacy, pleasevisit the State Department's website."

Looks good to me! (thank you Lord!!)

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Tropical Storm HANNA

The coastal states are getting hit by the wrath of T.S. Hanna - so we've battened down our hatches, so to speak. In the city that means: tie down/remove the patio umbrella, jam garbage cans in a tight corner/remove lids. Oh yeah......bring in the pets lol

That's about all of the excited to post.....sad but true.

Perhaps I'll post after the storm.

PEACE

Ethica News!

Vietnam: Update on September 1, 2008 Deadline> > The Vietnamese Department of International Adoptions (DIA)> has> confirmed that the DIA continued to issue referrals to> prospective> adoptive parents until September 1, 2008, the date the> United States –> Vietnam bilateral adoption agreement expired. According to> the> Vietnamese Ministry of Justice, prospective adoptive> parents who> received a formal referral by September 1 will be allowed> to process> their adoption to conclusion. Dossiers that were not> referred by> September 1 will be closed and returned to the adoption> service> provider.> > According to the DIA, a referral occurs when DIA sends a> letter to> prospective adoptive parents informing them that both DIA> and> provincial authorities have agreed to the match of a> specific child.> Any case where this letter has been sent to the prospective> adoptive> parents before September 1 will be considered as having a> referral and> will be processed to completion.> > The DIA has informed the U.S. Embassy in Hanoi that they> will supply> the U.S. Embassy with a list of all cases that have> received a> referral. The Embassy expects to receive this list during> the third> week of September. The Embassy will confirm when this> information is> available to all U.S. adoption service providers and issue> a public> announcement providing a general summary about the number> of cases> still in process. Prospective adoptive parents who have> not received> a referral letter may wish to verify the status of their> case with> their adoption service provider.> > According to an informal poll of adoption service providers> taken in> mid August, approximately 600-700 prospective adoptive> parents still> had an application pending with the DIA and had not yet> received> referrals. The U.S. Embassy in Hanoi, Vietnam, will> process to> conclusion all adoptions that meet the Government of> Vietnam's> criteria and deadlines.> > The United States is strongly committed to processing> legitimate> intercountry adoptions from Vietnam. We have indicated to> the> Vietnamese our interest in negotiating a new agreement. An> important> goal for the United States is that any new agreement must> establish> enforceable safeguards and a transparent process which> ensures that> the children and families involved in the adoption process> are> protected from exploitation. The Government of Vietnam> shares this> concern. Both countries acknowledge that more needs to be> done to> address deficiencies in the current system. It is not> possible, at> this time, to predict when a new bilateral adoption> agreement may be> negotiated and signed.> > U.S. field investigations continue to reveal incidents of> serious> adoption irregularities, including forged or altered> documentation,> cash payment to birth mothers (for other than reasonable> payments for> necessary activities such as administrative, court, legal,> translation, and/or medical services related to the> adoption),> coercion or deceit to induce the birth parent(s) to release> children> to an orphanage, and children being offered for> intercountry adoption> without the knowledge or consent of their birth parents. > During the> month of June 2008, some children were reunited with their> families> after investigations by the U.S. Embassy in Vietnam> revealed that the> birth parents had not consented to their adoption. In> August,> Vietnamese officials confirmed media reports that 24> individuals have> been arrested and charged throughout Vietnam for> documentation fraud> and child trafficking instances related to intercountry> adoption.> > The U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Service and the> Department of> State have instituted procedures to verify that children> identified> for placement meet the requirements of Vietnamese and U.S.> law, before> the child has been adopted under Vietnamese law. > Information about> these procedures is available from USCIS or through their> website> http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis. The Embassy> strongly advises> prospective adoptive parents not to travel to Vietnam until> they have> received notification from the Embassy that their case is> ready for> final processing and travel is appropriate.

Monday, September 1, 2008

Reality has reared it's ugly head....

but I refuse to give up! My son will be home to me, one of these days and I pray, sooner than expected. I don't envy those of you that are way out in front of the line. All I can say is, follow your heart, where ever it may lead you. If that's waiting it out, great........if it's switching out, that's also great. We all have to follow our own destiny. Good luck to us but more love to those babies that are stuck, with NO choices! Nicholas, Mommy will be on those 747's as soon as she can...promise!

Friday, August 29, 2008

So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don't, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it'd be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. Eventually feels a lot better than actually.” -Dr. Meredith

Tuesday, August 26, 2008

I keep Nicholas close to me, even on vacation!




I know, I need my head examined for bringing clothing for a baby that hasn't come home to me yet....but he's on my mind so often, I wanted to share this with him, where ever he might be! Love Mommy..

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Crap, Vacation is over..








While the weather, thankfully was great, not a drop of rain, Miami was HUMID, ugh. But that didn't last too long, a couple of hours after we sailed from Miami, it was better. The ports we visited were, Cozumel, Mexico, Cayman Island & Ocho Rios, Jamaica. Cozumel was the best, such beautiful beaches, clear water...ah...Caywan was the next best and Jamaica, well...I never debarked!! I'll post a few pictures. Oh yeah, our ship rescued 44 Haitians that were adrift for 15 days! Needless to say, about 12 hours later, the Coast Guard came and retrieved them and back to Haiti they went!! Those people were lucky to survive the dehydration but, did they know about the sharks circling them???????????? God Bless America...I also came to another realization..........I don't like flying anymore. Boy am I in BIG trouble or what? I have a trip to Hawaii in Oct (connecting flights in both directions!!) and then................VIETNAM. oye. Drugs please.

Friday, August 15, 2008

Ahoy! I am coming about.





























Ok, I should really be sleeping since we're (Mom, Aunt & Myself) are heading for John F. Kennedy International Airport bound for Miami Florida where we'll board of lovely ship. The Carnival Liberty!! I pray for a safe journey, please do the same for us. Thanks. I'll attach some pictures of our ship. Until my return, be safe everyone and I hope for wonderful news upon my return....By the way, the cabin pictured here isn't ours. We have a SUITE. Ah it feels good, V.I.P. check-in. Hey, ya only live once. Momma La.....xoxoxoxoxo DYLM? ILY !